I was turning 25 yesterday. Here are 25 things i've learned so far:
1. in 25, you're expected to be grown up, act like grown up, in fact you're just a teenager with bills.
2. in 25, you're expected to have mastered at least one thing for your speciality for commercial or work purpose, in fact you're feeling lost sometimes.
3. in 25, you're expected to graduate soon, have a settle job soon, in fact you're craving for something different but you have no other choice how to shut them up, so you do it anyway, to satisfy people, not yourself.
4. in 25, you're expected to help your previous generation for some of their debts or other financial responsibilities, in fact you're just realize that this 'structural sandwich generation' condition must be ended soon, and it's your burden to explain and show them how it can be ended
5. in 25, if you're a girl, you're expected to have a boyfriend to show off to everyone, to have a commitment with, to spend time together with, in fact you're hella trying to find or meet a suitable one, if some of them are kind of show up, you're just literally confuse how to work on this, so you prefer to be single anyway until the time is up and you don't know when
6. in 25, i realize that some of systems in our society are dull and outdated, so we have to find a loophole how to unlearn things
7. in 25, i realize that it's okay to be different, to stand out from the crowd, to have your own way of seeing things or doing things, to speak up about anything that you feel it sucks and no longer serve you, it's okay to be rebellious in a positive way
8. in 25, i realize that a religious person is different than a spiritual person, they who always preach some absurd religious way of living, some of them actually don't contemplate enough on how to see things with a bigger picture and some of them maybe haven't awakened yet. Being a religious is doing things what you've been taught for years, while being a spiritually awakened is an individual journey to seek the bigger picture of how the universe works for you within yourself.
9. in 25, i realize that loving my self is the cure of any kind of past damages, the cure of unseen wounds, the cure of broken relationships, the cure of the dark sides of my self.
10. in 25, i realize that loving my self is not merely by taking care of my face and my body with several skincare products, it's more to emotional level, it's include forgiving my self for being too hard on myself, and forgiving my self for comparing things to other
11. in 25, i realize that i have come so far, i looked back and amazed what a hilarious journey that I had to be in this moment, in this current situation. I've never been so grateful in my life.
12. in 25, i just realize that we have so many options with so many information, that cause some of us succeed to be something, meanwhile some of us failed because we can never be fit in
13. in 25, i realize that we can gain as much as we want as long as we detach and surrender ourselves from the resistance of a conservative mind, i mean be open to new things but don't be so dumb, find that natural filter within you
14. in 25, i experienced that Law of Attraction is hella real. I attracted new romantic relationships, i attracted new house, i attracted money, i attracted stability, and shockingly, it works.
15. in 25, i experienced the great shift in my life in term of relationship, especially family relationship, friendship, and romance relationship, at first those were heavy and miserable as hell, but it's getting better through time
16. in 25, i realize that the hardest way to forget someone is by not forgetting them, but how to feel normal and chill every time we remember that person
17. in 25, i learn that we can't fix someone unless that person is willing to change himself, let them be, just focus on ourselves
18. in 25, if something is neccessary, you can avoid it now, but you will find it later, like awakening journey, family issue, your own inner battle with yourself, your mental health, your emotions, you can't run away from them, deal with it.
19. in 25, i realize that life is easier when we don't compete. Don't do it for the sake of winning, focusing on winning is ego, do it if you feel like so, not to prove people that you're able to do it, showing off is part of ego
20. in 25, try to let go, nothing lasts forever, practice to detach yourself from anything, your good or bad reputation, your given self branding, free your self from any labels you didn't choose
21. in 25, i know that being humble is sexy, being someone who is rich, stable, wealthy, thoughtful yet still grounding is super sexy, be that person who live life to its fullest, doing whatever you want, without announcement for recognition
2. in 25, you're expected to have mastered at least one thing for your speciality for commercial or work purpose, in fact you're feeling lost sometimes.
3. in 25, you're expected to graduate soon, have a settle job soon, in fact you're craving for something different but you have no other choice how to shut them up, so you do it anyway, to satisfy people, not yourself.
4. in 25, you're expected to help your previous generation for some of their debts or other financial responsibilities, in fact you're just realize that this 'structural sandwich generation' condition must be ended soon, and it's your burden to explain and show them how it can be ended
5. in 25, if you're a girl, you're expected to have a boyfriend to show off to everyone, to have a commitment with, to spend time together with, in fact you're hella trying to find or meet a suitable one, if some of them are kind of show up, you're just literally confuse how to work on this, so you prefer to be single anyway until the time is up and you don't know when
6. in 25, i realize that some of systems in our society are dull and outdated, so we have to find a loophole how to unlearn things
7. in 25, i realize that it's okay to be different, to stand out from the crowd, to have your own way of seeing things or doing things, to speak up about anything that you feel it sucks and no longer serve you, it's okay to be rebellious in a positive way
8. in 25, i realize that a religious person is different than a spiritual person, they who always preach some absurd religious way of living, some of them actually don't contemplate enough on how to see things with a bigger picture and some of them maybe haven't awakened yet. Being a religious is doing things what you've been taught for years, while being a spiritually awakened is an individual journey to seek the bigger picture of how the universe works for you within yourself.
9. in 25, i realize that loving my self is the cure of any kind of past damages, the cure of unseen wounds, the cure of broken relationships, the cure of the dark sides of my self.
10. in 25, i realize that loving my self is not merely by taking care of my face and my body with several skincare products, it's more to emotional level, it's include forgiving my self for being too hard on myself, and forgiving my self for comparing things to other
11. in 25, i realize that i have come so far, i looked back and amazed what a hilarious journey that I had to be in this moment, in this current situation. I've never been so grateful in my life.
12. in 25, i just realize that we have so many options with so many information, that cause some of us succeed to be something, meanwhile some of us failed because we can never be fit in
13. in 25, i realize that we can gain as much as we want as long as we detach and surrender ourselves from the resistance of a conservative mind, i mean be open to new things but don't be so dumb, find that natural filter within you
14. in 25, i experienced that Law of Attraction is hella real. I attracted new romantic relationships, i attracted new house, i attracted money, i attracted stability, and shockingly, it works.
15. in 25, i experienced the great shift in my life in term of relationship, especially family relationship, friendship, and romance relationship, at first those were heavy and miserable as hell, but it's getting better through time
16. in 25, i realize that the hardest way to forget someone is by not forgetting them, but how to feel normal and chill every time we remember that person
17. in 25, i learn that we can't fix someone unless that person is willing to change himself, let them be, just focus on ourselves
18. in 25, if something is neccessary, you can avoid it now, but you will find it later, like awakening journey, family issue, your own inner battle with yourself, your mental health, your emotions, you can't run away from them, deal with it.
19. in 25, i realize that life is easier when we don't compete. Don't do it for the sake of winning, focusing on winning is ego, do it if you feel like so, not to prove people that you're able to do it, showing off is part of ego
20. in 25, try to let go, nothing lasts forever, practice to detach yourself from anything, your good or bad reputation, your given self branding, free your self from any labels you didn't choose
21. in 25, i know that being humble is sexy, being someone who is rich, stable, wealthy, thoughtful yet still grounding is super sexy, be that person who live life to its fullest, doing whatever you want, without announcement for recognition
22. in 25, i fully aware that our current reality is related with our past, and our current mindset is responsible for how the future is going to look like
23. in 25, i realize that it's not us that lack of grateful to want some other things while some things have achieved, it's because people's energy changes, people's capacity changes, that's why we always want more and deserve more too, once we level up
24. in 25, i fully aware that we can still have faith in our dreams, we still can do whatever we want, like literally everything, as long as we know how to pratice Law of Attraction, that's the secret which unfortunately everybody refuse.
25. in 25, you can literally count how many friends that actually remember your birthday without dropping them some hints first
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